Relationships require . . . (yes there are times)

Relationships require Hard Work and Endurance


No! . . . Not Love.
No. Not this time.

HERE we emphasize hard work and endurance.
You can’t take the First Step twice, and Love IS the first step.
Nope! Here, you walk
No first steps and love is not the focus

HERE its hard work and endurance.

~Work Is Not Relative! It does not depend on your opinion, nor does it chang with your mood.
WORK just IS (and this is hard work).

It begs to be completed whether you enjoy it or not.
When you don’t address it ~*~ it remains undone, incomplete, and unfulfilled.
It remains work.

No one can do your work for you.
~You Can Not fulfill the obligations of another; for when work is assumed by another it becomes the possession of another ~*~ Their Work. . . . leaving behind them the work the YOU MUST DO.

Your work remains undone . . . You still have work to do.

So you see this is not about love because I Love You!
This here is about hard work and endurance. . .
How long will your work go undone?
And most importantly. . .

How long are you willing to Work?
Endurance is required!!!!!

)riginal – Princess Kimberly ~ White Dec 2010

an intoxicating event

. . . meeting and getting to know someone new is an intoxicating event for a person like me – I thrive on shared wisdom and learning from the experiences of others . . . There is so much I want to do, see, read about, and experience that there is no way, realistically, that I can do it all – but. . . God being so great; he has given me (just as he has given everyone else) a world full of interesting people to learn from and share with and for each one I meet I am grateful; by each exchange I am blessed >>> With shared knowledge we can have a stronger community – but for some reason (I know it is because we are all different) many people don’t like to share.


Our time is so short here and we HAVE because so many others have worked and shared, preservation and perseverance dictates and requires that we not only show extensive respect and appreciation for those that came before, but we must also pay it forward and all around – Encouragement of the spirit and soul is a great way to share with the current population because it spreads and escalates and leads to development. Planning, education, and creativity are the best ways to pay it forward and provide for those who are yet to come. But we can’t just be hearers, contemplators, observers, or initiators – we must be doers and completers (I say this as encouragement, and development for my own soul – I have started so many projects over the past 10 years but I really need to see most of them to completion)

I could go on and on about my views and understandings – I like to talk but let me add that I read a lot of nonfiction and I can be a deep thinker >>> but we’ll keep it light lol ~ I certainly have a solid belief system, a lot of faith, and a few religiosities but for the most part I’m open minded, understanding, tolerant, respectful, and forgiving. Above all I’m curious about the behaviors, and journeys of others and how their paths intertwine with mine.

~ Original Princess K D White

~Elizabeth Barret Browing : I love this poem - Women are Amazing!!!

A Woman’s Shortcomings

She has laughed as softly as if she sighed,
She has counted six and over,
Of a purse well filled, and a heart well tried-
Oh each a worthy lover!
They “give her time”; for her soul must slip
Where the world has set the grooving:
She will lie to none with her fair red lip-
But love seeks truer loving.

She trembles her fan in a sweetness dumb,

As her thoughts were beyond recalling,

With a glance for one, and a glance for some,

For her eyelids rising and falling:

Speaks common words with a blushful air,

Hears bold words, unreproving;

But her silence says – what she never will swear-

And love seeks better loving.

Go, Lady lean to the night-guitar,

And drop a smile to the bringer

Then smile as sweetly, when he is far,

At the voice of an indoor singer.

Bask tenderly beneath tender eyes:

Glance lightly at their removing;

And join new vows to old perjuries-

But dare not call it loving.

Unless you can think, when song is done,

No other is soft in the rhythm;

Unless you can feel, when left by one,

That all men else go with him;

Unless you can know, when unpraised by his breath,

That your beauty itself wants proving;

Unless you can swear, “For life, For death!”-

Oh fear not call it loving!

Unless you can muse in a crowd all day,

On the absent face that fixed you;

Unless you can love as the Angels may,

With the breadth of heaven betwixt you:

Unless you can dream that his faith is fast,

Through behoving and unbehoving:

Unless you can die when the dream is past-

Oh never call it loving!

~Elizabeth Barret Browing

This poem reminds me of Memoirs of Geisha – I love that movie – I love this poem - Women are Amazing!!!



after love lost, love won

after love loss, love won


The real reason I miss you just cant be explained
I loved how it felt
hearing you call my name


To have been in your presence, A blessing itself
I’d had rather been with you,
than any place else


My Prayers to my God were strong and sincere
I prayed for grace
and to Him I drew near


He knew my heart. He knew how it ached.
Because, although not intentional
my heart you did break.


And you taught me a lesson, you and my God.
A very hard lesson
(you spared no the rod).


Yet before you quickly grew tired of me
You blessed me in ways
I have yet to see


You showed me that I, despite my mistakes,
could attract a good person.
I have what it takes!


Before I met you I couldn’t believe
That someone as wonderful as you
Would truly love me


Although your fondness Never grew to love
It sent me a sign
From My God above


It said I’m special to Him And what He has for me
Is far greater and much grander
Than what I foresee


I worry a lot Because I make many mistakes
Yet He blesses me beyond
What should be my fate


And you were a blessing That helped me believe
That a good love will stay
But MY Love won’t leave


You were a good one You just were not mine
But I wished that you were
And would be for all time.


Requirements and qualifications Are an extensive list
And the children and I
Needed more than a wish


A wish can’t provide When help is needed
A wish can’t return love
Its purpose is defeated


So I couldn’t live wishing For someone who Will
But for someone who Does
I’ll wait and be still


If you were any indication Of what is to come
I’ll find contentment in waiting
For you to be outdone


You’re top of the line If anyone ever asks me
So if the plan is for better
Then so shall it be


And although it’s over you’re now just a friend
A new journey began
Because ours came to and end.




2004 ~ princess Original